DownSyn Forum Forum Index DownSyn Forum
Extra Chromosome... Extra Family
 
shoppingShop   Watched TopicsWatched Topics   FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   CalendarCalendar  RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   MapMap   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 
Forum TourForum Tour 

How do you make it stop?

Goto page 1, 2  Next
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic   printer-friendly view       DownSyn Forum Forum Index -> General
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
lespring
Super Member


Joined: 26 Mar 2005


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 11471
Location: Twin Cities metro area, MN

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 2:44 PM    Post subject:
How do you make it stop?
Reply with quote

How do you make it stop? When she comes upstairs in the morning looking 3 years older, and I ask her if someone gave her something while she slept. She just crinkles her nose up at me at laughs.


If we go to to the park, that is not a little girl on the swings anymore.


In fact, she she rarely asks to go to the park now.

At night, she takes herself downstairs to dress for bed, then hollers up the stairs, "I'm ready!" which is my cue to come down to tuck her in. But a few days ago she stood at the top of the stairs, poised to make her trip down to change into her PJ's. "Goodnight mom. See you in the morning." I am no longer welcome in the bedtime routine.


She has a new agenda now, and it doesn't always involve me. In fact, most of the time it does not!


She has her eye out for other things...


other adventures...


And possibly other...ehem..."people"

_________________
~Leah~

Did you visit my mom's blog today?
http://www.gardenofeagan.blogspot.com

And don't forget to visit MINE!
http://itsmylifemom.blogspot.com/

mom to Noah 23, Tyler 21, Angela 14 (DS)
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ] Visit poster's blog Yahoo Messenger
Googsmom
Super Member


Joined: 24 May 2008


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 1213
Location: Oregon

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 2:50 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} She's growing up Momma Smile

_________________
Jennifer, Momma to The Brookster 4 yrs old


www.specialneedsinmolalla.blogspot.com
www.foundalongthejourneythroughholland.blogspot.com
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog
mellysmom
Senior Member


Joined: 06 Jul 2008


Last Visit: 04 Oct 2010
Posts: 615
Location: new england

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 3:19 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Wow,

Beautiful!!!!
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Ericanaysha
Member


Joined: 23 Jun 2010

Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 73
Location: Houston, TX

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 4:14 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

She looks so grown! Such a beauty!

_________________
~Erica~
Mama to Natalie (6), Caleb (2), and Ephraim (5 months- MDS)

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Solveig
Super Moderator


Joined: 24 Jun 2000


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 1329
Location: Norway

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 4:22 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

I've just had a taste of that feeling myself this summer. My girl's only 10, and I want the world to stop turning so she doesn't grow up so fast!!!
So glad you're ahead of me on this part of the road - means that there's someone I've known for a while here to tell me it's going to be ok when I'm on the same spot you are right now Wink.

She's beautiful. And so grown. So proud of you, Mama, you've done a great job.

_________________
Mom to:
Jesper 07/23/95 (stepson)
Hanne Torill 06/06/98 (daughter)
Benedikte 04/14/00 DS (daughter)
Mads & Emil 07/05/00 (stepsons)
Svein Atle 05/13/03 (son)

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ] MSN Messenger
Vicki89
Senior Member


Joined: 28 Oct 2009

Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 124
Location: St. Louis

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 4:50 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

love the pictures!!! i know im trying to figure out where the first 10 months with kole have gone. it already seems like everything has gone SO fast

_________________
Mommy to Kole 10/7/2009 (DS, ASD & VSD)


http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f226/proslow/th_PICT0018.jpg[/img][/URL]

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Tigger
Super Member


Joined: 28 Jan 2006


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 6542
Location: NSW, Australia

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 5:55 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Wow!! Look at that grown up girl Shocked She looks amazing!!!!

_________________
Karyn
Mum to Nikki (Jul 89), Stefanie (Sep 96), Joel [June 98] and Talitha (DS) (Nov 05) AVSD/PDA repaired 23 March 06

"I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well." Psalm 139:14
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
AliMama
Senior Member


Joined: 08 Aug 2009


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 961
Location: Illinois

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 6:14 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Beautiful pictures! What a wonderful girl you have!

_________________
Maresa,
Mom to Alisa (10-29-2008) DS, complete AV canal repair on 3-6-09


Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Emdad
Super Moderator


Joined: 18 Jul 2000


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 4734
Location: San Diego, CA

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 6:52 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Wow is right.
Very Happy

_________________


Nature goes her own way and all that to us seems an exception is really according to order.
-Goethe
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog AIM Address MSN Messenger
DanielsMommy
Super Member


Joined: 18 Sep 2005


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 4359
Location: Rhode Island

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 7:43 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Leah, those are some amazing pictures. Her smile lights up her whole face. She looks BEAUTIFUL.

I know how the times does fly....she is not a little girl any more. Thank God I have you to pave the way for me Smile.

_________________

Lisa - Mommy to Elayna 10-1-02 and Daniel (Ds) 6-7-05
Always have hope....Without rain, there can be no rainbows.






Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
thadlo
Senior Member


Joined: 11 Aug 2009


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 166
Location: MI

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 7:44 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

What beautiful pictures! She is turning into quite the young lady! Sometimes growing up doesn't seem fair.

_________________
Lorene in MI
Wife to Thad
Mom to Mackenna (6/1/97) Tanner (2/12/99) Ashton (3/8/01) and Sienna (7/14/09)
http://vimeo.com/6835028

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Arielle
Member


Joined: 28 Aug 2008


Last Visit: 14 Aug 2010
Posts: 63
Location: Michigan

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 8:02 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

*sigh*

Living the same life here with my own 13 year old...I'm there for ya!

(By the way...how is it that Angela just keeps getting CUTER?! AJ would so be all over her Wink )
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog
kzmom
Senior Member


Joined: 20 Jun 2008


Last Visit: 03 Oct 2010
Posts: 371
Location: Wisconsin

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 8:14 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Beautiful pictures!

_________________
______
Kristen
Mom to Zach (Jan 2005) and Katelyn (Feb 2008 DS)
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Mya's Mom
New Member


Joined: 01 Jul 2010

Last Visit: 26 Aug 2010
Posts: 23
Location: Florida

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 8:31 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

your daughter is beautiful! Mine is 4 years old, and I already feel like she's growing up too fast:)


_________________
Emily
mom to Mya, 4 years old (3/16/06)
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
SherryinWI
Senior Member


Joined: 31 Dec 2005


Last Visit: 29 Sep 2010
Posts: 719
Location: Waukesha, WI

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 8:47 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Wow! She really has grown-up like overnight. What wonderful pictures...you have to be so so proud of these awesome photos! And proud of Angela as well.

_________________
Sherry
Evan 10, Olivia 9, and Nate 6*

Hosted on Fotki
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
kris10z
Super Member


Joined: 24 Jul 2006


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 3671
Location: North Carolina

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 9:14 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Such beautiful portraits. She's growing up TOO fast!

_________________
Kristen: Wife to Scott, Mama Bear to Ethan
(05/25/01, DS & ALL)
Independent Demonstrator, Uppercase Living
http://kris10z.uppercaseliving.net
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog Yahoo Messenger
Edensmama
Senior Member


Joined: 15 Sep 2008


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 629
Location: Chicagoland area

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 9:51 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

YIKES! She looks like a WOMAN practically!! Shocked Oh my goodness..time sure does fly. She has the most amazing smile...you must be so proud of her.

_________________
Nathalie
Mom to Eden (DS) 4-13-08
Wife to Luciano (the best daddy in the world) since 10-8-2005
www.caringbridge.org/visit/edensalem



Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
ellenstumbo
Senior Member


Joined: 02 Dec 2007


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 926
Location: Northern Iowa

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 10:35 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

She is so beautiful!

And most people that know me know they are not allowed to say Nichole is a big girl. I remind them quickly she is my BABY! Although she is almost 3!

_________________
Ellen, honored to be married to Andy since Feb 2003 and mom to Ellie (08/21/05) Nina (05/01/06 CP) and Nichole (10/02/07 DS)
www.elliestumbo.blogspot.com

"For you created my inmost being, you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made, your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Psalm 139:13-14
God does not make mistakes
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog
Kasey
Senior Member


Joined: 26 May 2009


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 349
Location: British Columbia

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 11:45 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Great pictures! She really does look like she grew up over night- shocking!!

_________________
Kasey, mom to Paige (2!)
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Sally/Grandma to Mya
Super Member


Joined: 29 Dec 2002


Last Visit: 25 Sep 2010
Posts: 3124
Location: Sacramento, California

PostPosted: August 14 2010, 11:54 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Leah...when did this happen??? That is how I feel too. She is becoming a beautiful young woman. I praise her independence...but feel your pain as well. I fell it every time I look at my daughter..the mother of 3...YIKES...but you already know that being a mother, a momma, a mommy...it never stops.

_________________
Mya's Grandma
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ]
MissTsMom
Senior Member


Joined: 15 Aug 2006


Last Visit: 15 Sep 2010
Posts: 473
Location: Oregon Coast

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 1:24 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Oh My Goodness she is growing up. I can't believe it! Where has the time gone?! Just Beautiful!!!

_________________

Kim and Miss T




~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Kim~~Mom to TWO Miracles
Gaby 11/8/93
Thea-Ann Marie 06/16/06 DS
~Two Angels in Heaven~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog Yahoo Messenger
Karien
Senior Member


Joined: 26 May 2009


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 528
Location: Pretoria, South Africa

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 1:56 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

She has turned into a beautiful young lady! She really has grown up so fast.....just wait till there's as sister to teach new things!

_________________
Karien: happily married to Neels
Mom to Ewald (16), Eduan (13), Alvin (9) and KALLEN

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
~Ben'smum~
Super Member


Joined: 26 May 2009


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 1249
Location: Northern Ireland

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 2:31 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Beautiful picures! She really has grown up so much since I've joined this forum. Very Happy

_________________
Karen- Mum to the world's cutest baby!! Very Happy Ben



Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
dect
Super Moderator


Joined: 02 May 2006


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 2632

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 2:40 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

I can't believe how grown up she's looking Very Happy

_________________
Deryck
Dad to Xena 2 Aug 97, Lucas 28 Jun 99, Persephone 12 Jan 2004 (DS & AVSD repaired, artificial mitral valve)

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind - Theodore Geisel (Dr Seuss)

http://www.picklesnet.co.uk

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Yahoo Messenger MSN Messenger
earlyam
Senior Member


Joined: 13 Sep 2008


Last Visit: 04 Oct 2010
Posts: 784
Location: Wiltshire, UK

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 5:35 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Beautiful......Just so grown up!

_________________
Jo, Mum to Georgia 11/11/03 ( BIG High School Musical fan) and Ethan 16/12/07 (DS)







Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
LinMac
Super Member


Joined: 27 Oct 2005


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 3697
Location: Dublin, Ireland

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 7:03 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Leah.....did you take those photos yourself? They are amazing! Just like the young woman blossoming before your eyes!
I love those photos.
I often tell my daughter Hannah I'm going to borrow Homer Simpsons debigulator to put her in it....have you seen that episode?
Thanks for sharing these with us....today I'm finding the hands on very stressful with Robert. This post reminds me it won't always be like this!

_________________
Linda & John
mom to Hannah Kate (Age 12 ), Robert (Aged 6 - DS)


First day at school
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
lespring
Super Member


Joined: 26 Mar 2005


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 11471
Location: Twin Cities metro area, MN

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 9:44 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Thanks everyone! Yes, she is growing up VERY fast! She has changed so much the last year, it is hard to believe. The little girl is gone.

Linda, no I had these pictures done. I got my new camera before the Serbia trip and have yet to really learn now to work it! ROFL

_________________
~Leah~

Did you visit my mom's blog today?
http://www.gardenofeagan.blogspot.com

And don't forget to visit MINE!
http://itsmylifemom.blogspot.com/

mom to Noah 23, Tyler 21, Angela 14 (DS)
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ] Visit poster's blog Yahoo Messenger
AMTJmom
Super Member


Joined: 12 Mar 2007


Last Visit: 13 Sep 2010
Posts: 1831
Location: MO

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 11:25 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

What a beautiful young lady Angela has become! I've found that being the mom to a teen-age daughter is fun, exciting, and scary!

_________________
Julie - wife to Allan (5-90),mom to Andrew (6-93), Madelyn (3-96), Tyler (11-98 ), Jackson (ds 10-27-06), and adopting Dashlyn! (ds 3-21-08 )

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog
momofrussell
Super Member


Joined: 05 Apr 2006


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 4094
Location: St. Louis, MO

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 12:03 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

*sniff* baby girl is growing up!!! Beautiful!!!! Smile

_________________
Adrienne - mom to: Regan 17, Russell 12 DS, Autism, Visually Impaired, Reece 9.

DSAGSL 2009 Buddy Walk
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ]
huskies9798
Super Member


Joined: 26 Oct 2004


Last Visit: 03 Oct 2010
Posts: 2739
Location: cincinnati ohio

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 2:03 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

OMG Leah stunning!!!! she looks so grown up, beautiful

_________________
chris
mommy to brooke ds 8-30-04 blake 1-24-07
ss derek 1-19-94
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ]
4littlelambs
Member


Joined: 15 Sep 2008


Last Visit: 03 Oct 2010
Posts: 44

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 4:50 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Oh my goodness... she's gorgeous!!! I have followed this board (without introducing myself) for years and remember a wee Angela... I don't think I have seen a picture of her for a long time.

She's just beautiful!!!

Love,
Susan & Josh
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
maggiebeth25
Senior Member


Joined: 11 Feb 2010

Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 221
Location: North Carolina

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 7:41 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

so beautiful!

_________________
Maggie, mom to Rachel (9/19/09), duodenal atresia repair on 10/26/09, VSD closed
www.maggiefluck.blogspot.com


Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ] Visit poster's blog
Shawn's mommy
Senior Member


Joined: 09 Jul 2005


Last Visit: 01 Oct 2010
Posts: 697
Location: Seminole Florida

PostPosted: August 15 2010, 9:18 PM    Post subject:
leah,
Reply with quote

wow, she is just so cute... It's hard to believe the little girl is gone... don't you wish you could freeze time... I love the pictures..

_________________



Shawn's Mommy-Christy Jennifer 23 Reese 15 Shawn the big 8
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ]
Jeri
Senior Member


Joined: 17 Dec 2005


Last Visit: 04 Oct 2010
Posts: 226
Location: North Carolina

PostPosted: August 16 2010, 6:57 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

She is amazing. She is so pretty. Thanks for sharing so much with us and for showing us the way.

_________________
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ]
JanetG
Super Member


Joined: 19 Sep 2007


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 1277
Location: KC Metro

PostPosted: August 16 2010, 7:55 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

She is beautiful, and her smile is absolutely infectious! You must be so proud of the young lady she's becoming.... Smile

_________________
Janet (44) and Jeff (44)
Joshua (angel) '85
Sarah-age 22
Jaret-age 5
Jacey-born 2/22/08 (dx w/ Ds 9/10/07)




Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ] AIM Address
Momof6
Super Member


Joined: 30 Sep 2008


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 1907
Location: Cortland, NY

PostPosted: August 16 2010, 9:29 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Oh My Goodness, she just took my breath away. She is just beautiful leah.

_________________
~Christine~
Mom of 6
Brandon ADD/ADHD 17, Chelsea 14, Connor 12, Logan 6, Cody 4 & Austin 1 ( DS & Hirschsprungs pull through 12/8/08 )
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/austinpaquin



Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ]
Asa's Momma
Senior Member


Joined: 29 Oct 2008


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 367
Location: Upper Valley, NH

PostPosted: August 16 2010, 2:28 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

What a wonderful young lady!

_________________






"Life is What You Make it..."
www.henryfamily-lifeiswhatumakeit.blogspot.com

Jackie (34 yrs.) - wife to Brian (31 yrs.) and Momma to Asa (3 yrs.).
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   Visit poster's blog
zorasmom
New Member


Joined: 25 Jun 2008


Last Visit: 17 Aug 2010
Posts: 3
Location: Tanzania

PostPosted: August 17 2010, 4:44 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

Thank you for sharing these fantastic pictures! Angela is a beautiful girl and I think you have perfectly captured the hopes and fears of most parents watching our children grow and develop into free-thinking independent young adults.

Zora is only 8 but each move toward independence fills me with hope and anguish - it is all so poignant, but unavoidable!

Thanks again for sharing.

Teresa
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message  
Tom
Administrator


Joined: 22 Jun 2000


Last Visit: 05 Oct 2010
Posts: 4948
Location: Plainview, NY

PostPosted: August 17 2010, 11:37 AM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

She has grown into a beautiful young lady since we saw you last. Then she was a beautiful little girl. They grow up so fast. In 19 days my daughter will be gone until Christmas vacation. They grow up way too fast.

_________________
Tom

Dad to Beth (17) and Mikey (13 - Ds and PDD-NOS)
My Blog - Random Thinking
Find me on Facebook
Find me on Twitter as tgpaul

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message [ Hidden ] Visit poster's blog AIM Address
Me-Shell
Senior Member


Joined: 24 Sep 2007


Last Visit: 27 Sep 2010
Posts: 726
Location: Davie, FL

PostPosted: August 17 2010, 12:00 PM    Post subject:
Reply with quote

ONE WORD "GORGEOUS"

_________________


Michelle, Fiance to Wyatt, Mom to Shane (20), Aubrey (17) and Baby Cameron DS (02/06/08 )

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message   AIM Address Yahoo Messenger
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic   printer-friendly view       DownSyn Forum Forum Index -> General All times are
Goto page 1, 2  Next
Page 1 of 2

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum
You cannot post calendar events in this forum
Click above to help support this site
Click below to help support the DSRTF



Down Syndrome: For New Parents

Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2008 phpBB Group