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valgab Senior Member
Joined: 31 Jan 2005
    
Last Visit: 30 Apr 2010 Posts: 347 Location: Bayville, NJ
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Posted: March 30 2010, 2:50 PM Post subject: Just visiting
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Hi all,
I am not sure if anyone remembers me but I was on back in 05 when my 2nd daughter was diagnosed inutero with DS & a VSD. SHe passed on 3/2/05 at almost 23 wks gestation.
1st off, all of your kids are ADORABLE!!! I want to eat them up. There is a little boy, I think momof6's son that resembles my son. The longer blonde hair & blue eyes. What a cutie!
2nd, I came back here to lurk as I just got my final medical records from the dr that treated me during Caitlin's pregnany. There was not much info in there but I did learn that her NT was 7.0. One of the things in there was her chromosome chart & right on her 21st, there was that pesky 3rd chromosome. When I saw it, I kinda smiled because for a brief moment in time, I was a member of a very special club, the down syndrome community. I feel like since she is an angel now, my membership was revoked.
You guys are some of the most caring people, I have ever met but when provoked, can open a serious can of whoopa**!
I wish you guys all the love & support I can.
Thanks for listening to me
{{hugs}}
_________________ Valerie
Alyssa Noel 12/28/01
Caitlin Rose{DS}Angel date 3/2/05
Hunter Sky 11/2/06
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~Ben'smum~ Super Member
Joined: 26 May 2009

Last Visit: 25 Sep 2010 Posts: 1232 Location: Northern Ireland
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Posted: March 30 2010, 2:58 PM Post subject:
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Hi Valerie, I'm sorry to hear that you lost your child, I can't even begin to imagine how that must feel!
You'll always be a member of our community! Feel free to drop in for a *virtual cup of tea* and a chat. 
_________________ Karen- Mum to the world's cutest baby!!  Ben
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Momtoseven Senior Member
Joined: 11 Aug 2008
 
Last Visit: 24 Sep 2010 Posts: 826 Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: March 30 2010, 3:32 PM Post subject:
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You will always be Caitlin's Mommy and therefore will always be a member of the ds community. I was not on in '05(didn't get my membership til '08) so I don't remember, but I am very sorry you lost your precious little one. How are you doing now?
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Momof6 Super Member
Joined: 30 Sep 2008

Last Visit: 24 Sep 2010 Posts: 1856 Location: Cortland, NY
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Posted: March 30 2010, 3:40 PM Post subject:
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Hi hon, so glad I'm getting the chance to meet you. Like the others have said, "once a member, always a member." I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Caitlin. I can only imagine how hard it must be on you and your family. Thank you for the compliment on my little Austin. He's my little spit-fire. Please pop in with us more often. We would love to hear about you and your family. Huge, huge, hugs.
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mary c Super Member
Joined: 06 Jan 2005
    
Last Visit: 24 Sep 2010 Posts: 3427 Location: Westchester County, New York
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Posted: March 30 2010, 5:09 PM Post subject:
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Hey I remember you! Once a member of the club, always a member of the club. Hope you and your family are doing well.
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EAS1971 Super Member
Joined: 04 Aug 2005
    
Last Visit: 24 Sep 2010 Posts: 1728 Location: Wichita, KS
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Posted: March 30 2010, 5:13 PM Post subject:
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I remember you, too!!!! I'm so glad you came back to "visit." Your membership has NOT been revoked!!!!!! You are welcome here, always!!
How are you and your family doing?
_________________ --Beth
Mom to Oliver, 5 (DS, ADHD)
and Sebastian, 4
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Helen Super Moderator
Joined: 07 Sep 2003
      
Last Visit: 19 Sep 2010 Posts: 8079 Location: Nottingham, UK
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Posted: March 30 2010, 5:18 PM Post subject:
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Hey hun. So good to hear from you.
I won't forget you. We all looked forward to Caitlin's arrival, and were so sad to hear when she died. You even came to the meet up, and I spoke to you briefly, when we were in PA, at Sesame Place.
Can't believe it's been 5 years. God bless you. Keep well, x
_________________ Helen
Mum to ...
Rachael Kinza (25/07/01), Matthew Isaac - DS & Autism - (14/06/03) and Hannah Cerys (14/06/05) - my gorgeous kids!
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DanielsMommy Super Member
Joined: 18 Sep 2005
    
Last Visit: 24 Sep 2010 Posts: 4355 Location: Rhode Island
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Posted: March 30 2010, 5:34 PM Post subject:
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Of course I remember you....we have even met in person at the Chucky Cheese meet up we had in NJ.
You will always be part of our elite 'club'. You had an angel....and I know she watches over us all.
Lots of love to you and your family!!!
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Lisa - Mommy to Elayna 10-1-02 and Daniel (Ds) 6-7-05
Always have hope....Without rain, there can be no rainbows.
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HannahsmomUK Super Moderator
Joined: 03 Jun 2004
     
Last Visit: 05 Jul 2010 Posts: 7778
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Posted: March 30 2010, 5:37 PM Post subject:
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Valerie, so good to hear from you, i always remember you and often remember sweet Caitlin and she will never be forgotten, and you will always be a member here and you too have helped others come to terms with their loss too
i can't believe its been 5 years where does the time go, oh how so much has changed for a lot of us older mommy's now lol good and bad times hey ho
but its truly wonderful to hear from you , stay in touch
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Courtney Senior Member
Joined: 07 Aug 2007
  
Last Visit: 24 Sep 2010 Posts: 665 Location: Middletown, NY
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Posted: March 30 2010, 7:54 PM Post subject:
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Once a member, always a member!!!
I am sorry to hear that you lost your daughter. I can't imagine how difficult that must be. Thanks for sharing her memory with us!
_________________ ~Courtney
{Lucy, 3, Ds, AVSD repaired 1/08; Brodie, 1}
Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, "What! You too? I thought I was the only one!" -CS Lewis
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MiniMidgMom Super Member
Joined: 07 Jun 2006
   
Last Visit: 08 Sep 2010 Posts: 3001 Location: near Nashville, Tennessee
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Posted: March 31 2010, 3:46 PM Post subject:
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Valerie, (((hugs))), you are always welcome! I bet your little Angel is smiling and so proud of her Mommy for staying a part of our community!
_________________ Anara
Wife to Craig (wed 3.8.03)
Mom to Clara (DS, Autism, born 8.8.05), Alan Russell (born 3.9.07)
Visit us on Facebook - I finally caved in!
Or my blog: able2able... your special needs resource directory http://www.able2able.com
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Tigger Super Member
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
   
Last Visit: 25 Sep 2010 Posts: 6527 Location: NSW, Australia
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Posted: April 01 2010, 4:42 PM Post subject:
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I remember you!!! It is good to hear from you. You will always be welcome. LIke everyone says - once a member, always a member. 
_________________ Karyn
Mum to Nikki (Jul 89), Stefanie (Sep 96), Joel [June 98] and Talitha (DS) (Nov 05) AVSD/PDA repaired 23 March 06
"I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well." Psalm 139:14
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